A number of couples I see in marriage or relationship counselling have problems because at least one person is unclear on priorities. This causes conflict when decisions are made or one persons behaves against the priorities the other person holds. This is one are that couples need to ideally be on the same page.

Knee Jerk Decisions Can Be Dangerous

As I am trying to work this out. I go back and relive the evening. I am visiting a friend in the country. A group of us are sitting around chatting. I mention I have a bit of pain in my body and my friend gets me to lay down. She uses some trigger point to work on...